Whether you are becoming a step parent or you already are one the path can be unpredictable and unclear. At Stepfamilies Australia we offer some much need resources for those contemplating joining or those who are struggling once already there.
Whether you are becoming a step parent or you already are one the path can be unpredictable and unclear. Some families merge really well while others struggle for years – and unfortunately there is no guide to help you with this.
At Stepfamilies Australia we offer some much need resources for those contemplating joining or those who are struggling once already there.
Research has shown that those families that get some counselling by a practitioner trained specifically in step and blended family dynamics have better long-term outcomes (in terms of relationship building) than those that don’t.
That being said it is never too late to try some specialised counselling. Stepfamilies are a unique family type that requires a different approach when it comes to offering support – check out our list of counsellors to see if there is one in your area that could benefit you and your family.
We have a selection of books listed for both parents and children that could help you and your children come to terms with the differing dynamics of their family structure.
Currently we are offering couples who reside in Melbourne who are in a stepfamily a day’s training called Stepping Up. In the future we are hoping to put this training online so that we can offer it to everyone in Australia. It is really helpful to meet and hear from parents going through experiences similar to yours. Stepfamilies Australia is partnering with other service providers around Australia who will also run these courses.
Stepfamilies Australia is currently being supported by drummond street services (a not for profit organisation in Victoria which promotes wellbeing for life). drummond street services have a number of parenting courses they run for free (if you live in Victoria) that are a great way to learn, grow and tackle some of the challenging things that you face as a parent, or in your family life. These parenting courses are run by parent educators. Experienced facilitators with years of expertise in helping parents manage the ups and downs of raising children, our parent educators believe that people can build on their strengths and aim for good enough parenting, not perfect parenting! For an overview of the current Seminars and Groups click the below link.
If you are a professional interested in learning more about our parenting framework, click here.
Being a parent is the hardest job in the world, but being a stepparent throws in a whole new set of challenges.
It can be hard to find the time to look after ourselves – but it is key to feeling positive and being physically and mentally healthy.
Hey, I had a relationship with them before you did.
I didn’t choose this – why do I have to live with this person?
Schools are often the first place to recognise changes in a child’s attitudes or behaviour.
There is no doubt that it is around the family and the home that all the greatest virtues are created, strengthened and maintained.
They know more than they let on – life’s secrets have come to them through time, experience and patience.
Looking back I gave Peter (stepdad) such a hard time, I really tested him. Now we are actually mates and we can laugh about it, but back then I was angry.
Without any positive action, stepparents do not have any legal rights with respect to parental responsibility.
You can learn many things from children. How much patience you have, for instance.
Optimism is a major advantage for all step family members so hold onto it!
“You did what today? That’s amazing!”
“This is a big change for both of us. Let’s support one another and enjoy the ride!”
“The only thing I love better than the wonderful low stress first day of the school holidays, is the last day – when I know they are going back tomorrow!”
When we think of holidays, instead of relief and relaxation it can be a hard time for parents, particularly step and blended families – the holidays can be a minefield.